/ 巴女的公信：停止在做的17件事!!!
1.Stop Doubting Yourself 停止疑自己
If you don’t believe in yourself, nobody will. Success starts in your mind, and if all you’re doing is putting yourself down and predicting failure, it’ll become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead of doubting yourself, think positively. Not only will you be happier and more successful, you’ll spread it to everyone around you.
如果你自己都不相信自己，那人相信你。成功源於你的，如果你所做的是不地看扁自己，言著未的失，就真的成。其疑自己，不如的考。不自己更加心和成功，你能感染到周的人。
2.Stop Being Negative 停止消
Now that you’redone doubting yourself, stop doubting others. You don’t like when people are critical of you, so stop being critical of others. Think about how you make other people feel even if you have good intentions, people don’t like hearing negativity.
在你不要再疑自己了，也再疑身的人。你不希望被人你挑剔，那也不要再去挑剔身的人。想想你人的什的感受吧即使出是好的，人也不想到那多消的事情呀。
3.Stop Procrastinating 停止拖延
I don’t feel like procrastinating right now I’ll do it tomorrow. When you procrastinate, you remain stagnant. Whatever you’re putting off doesn’t go away; resolve the problem, and move on. You’ll be much happier in the long run.
我在不想做，是留到明天吧。一旦始拖延，其你已停不前了。你拖延的事情不自行解。解，前行吧。角度你更加快。
4.Stop Being Mean 不要那刻薄
It’s completely possible to step on someone’s toes without meaning to it happens all the time. There’s no need to pile on by purposefully doing mean things, so make a conscious effort to stop being mean. If someone wrongs you, let it go. There’s no need to seek vengeance unless that’s the type of person you want to be.
意踩到人的情真的有可能生常常生。但必要去心地做一些不好的事情，所以要有意地自己不要那刻薄。如果有人你理地待，他去好了。必要去，除非你也想成那一的人。
5.Stop Eating Out 不要在外吃
Eating out is the biggest waste of money. Every so often it’s nice to treat yourself, but eating out for every meal is the quickest way to drain your bank account. Learn how to cook at least a handful of foods you enjoy: It’ll save you money, keep you healthier, and occasionally impress people.
在外面吃真的非常非常的浪。也每次於你而言都是一次犒，但每都在外面吃反而是花光蓄的最快方式。至少也去怎做一些自己喜的菜：既能省，能你更健康，其他人眼前一亮。
6.Stop Being Lazy 不要再偷
Lazy people are annoying it’s like pulling teeth getting them to do anything. If I can’t do something as simple as going to a movie with you without having to factor in an hour of convincing you to get your lazy butt out of bed, I’d rather go alone.People have enough trouble motivating themselves; don’t make your friends and family waste their valuable energy motivating you as well.
人真的很招人得像磨墨一逼著他做事情。如果我想跟你看一影，不得不花一小服你起床，那我一人去看。自己力都不是件容易的事情，就朋友和家人浪的精力再你力了吧。
7.Stop Complaining 停止抱怨
We all haveproblems, and sometimes we need to vent to someone. That’s acceptable, but payattention to how often you’re venting. We all love helping our friends andfamily, but when all you get from someone is negativity, it’s easier to cutthem off than help, especially if they’re always complaining about the samethings.
我都有麻事，有候想跟人。可以理解，但要注意你吐槽的率。我都喜助朋友和家人，但如果那人身上我只能感知到能量，那是得越越好吧，尤其是他在反抱怨同一件事的候。
8.Stop Being Selfish 再那自私
If you only think about yourself, you’ll soon find yourself by yourself. Stop for a minute and think about how your actions affect other people did you take the last cup of coffee from the break room? Refill it! Do you live with others? Don’t drink out the milk carton. We share this world 100% of the time, so every action you take can affect other people.
如果你只考你自己，那很快你身只剩下你自己。停一分想想你的行人什影吧你是不是休息室拿了最後一杯咖啡？再倒呀！你是不是和人合租？不要喝光所有的牛奶，世界是一完全由大家分享的世界，你所做的每件事都影到人。
9.Stop Wasting Time 再浪
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: time is the most valuable resource we have.Don’t waste your time on unproductive things. If you want to explore the world’s dark corners, that’s great. I still associate with people who have not-so-kosher careers, but I don’t hang out with those people at the expense of my own short-and long-term goals.
然之前了，但我想再一遍：是我有的最的源，不要把浪在有意的事情上面，如果你想探索世界的黑暗角落，很好。我也一些有固定工作的一些自由者，但我不以牲自己的短期期目代和他出去玩。
10.Stop Making Promises 再做承
Always under-promise and over-deliver. When you make a promise, you’re adding responsibility to your plate that, despite all your best intentions, you may not be able to deliver on. More often than not, your promise is an absolute (i.e 「I promise I’ll always love you」)， and only Sith deal in absolutes. Instead of making a promise with your words, simply be there when people need you, and exceed their expectations with your actions.
是做承，是做到。每次做承都是不禁自己增添了任，你的出有多好，你都不可能完成所有的部分。大部分候，你的承都太( 比如「我誓我永你」)，也只能在境中才能。其用言下承，不如在人需要你的候出，然後用行到他的期望吧。
11.Stop Being a Pushover 不要做老好人
We live in a capitalistic society in which everyone’s trying to sell us something.Everyone’s looking out for themselves in one way or another, and you need to do the same. Stop putting yourself out because you’re too shy to say no.
我所的社，每人都告知我一些事情。每人都不同的角度去找著自己，你也需要，你要做的就是在合的候不。
12.Stop Listening to Haters 不要的人
No matter what you want to do in life, there’s always someone around to tell you why it can’t and won’t work. I can come up with millions of reasons Twitter won’t work, and yet it’s one of the most popular social media sites on the web. My opinion didn’t stop Twitter’s success any more than it convinced Kobe Bryant to quit the NBA or Josh Hartnett to stop acting. Why would you let someone’s opinion stop you?
你想什，有人告你不要做，有用的。我可以想出成百推特不用的理由，但它是互上最流行的社交站之一。我的想法不阻止推特的成功，就像你法科比退出NBA或哈奈特不要演了一，都毫意。那什要人的想法阻止你呢?
13.Stop Being Wasteful 停止浪
You don’t finish your meals, and away food instead. You leave the faucet running when you brush your teeth, pouring precious water down the drain. You drive places you could easily walk, burning gasoline (a non-renewable resource)。 You are wasteful, and it needs to stop.
你吃完，然後扔掉食物;刷牙的候著水，就的水的流走;明明可以走到的地方你偏要，燃汽油(法再生源)。如果你浪了，那就停止一。
14.Stop Littering 不要扔垃圾
The only thing I hate more than wasteful people are litterbugs. Litterbugs are my least favorite bug, and there are more than you’d think. If you’ve ever thrown even one piece of gum, paper, candy wrapper, cigarette butt, etc on the ground, you’re a disgusting litterbug, and you should be ashamed of yourself. There are over 7 billion people in the world if each person only throws one 「innocent」 piece of garbage on the ground, that’s 7 billion pieces of garbage littering a world in which nobody 「did it」。
唯一一我得比浪的人更可的就是垃圾。垃圾最我，而且永多的你不清。如果你曾扔一口香糖，一、糖果包、蒂，那你就是心的垃圾。你感到辱。世界上有超70的人如果每人都意的扔一垃圾，那全世界就成70垃圾，哪怕有罪魁首。
Your one decision makes a HUGE difference, and I will not allow you to blow it off and walk around with your head held high. You’re a litterbug, and it needs to stop immediately. You don’t get a life hack for this one, you filthy animal. Just stop you already know how.
你的一定生深的影，我不成你去大路大高呼。如果你是垃圾，那就需要上停止了，也不救命，但能你不那惹人。停止一吧，你知道怎做的。
15.Stop Taking Everything Personally 把每件事太往心去
People get offended about the strangest things. Take Kendrick Lamar’s now-infamous verseon「Control」 this summer: he called out a list of a dozen rappers he thinks he’s better than (and he’s right)。 The internet went crazy, and rappers all over the industry rushed to their mics to record are sponse. The thing is, all K-Dot said is he’s the best rapper. Everyone took it personally, and that’s exactly what he was going for. The lesson to learn from this is that not everything is about you, and if you’re easily upset,someone will use that to their advantage.
人因一些奇怪的事情感到被侵犯。就拿Kendrick Lamar夏天受的歌曲《Control》例：他在歌中挑了一些他比他弱的舌歌手(的是)，一石激起千浪，整舌界的歌手都蜂歌作回。重在於，所有的人都自己是最好的舌者，每人都更看重自己，就是他的目的所在。件事教我的非就是不是所有的事都要著你，如果你容易受，有人利用一。
16.Stop Talking 不要再了
Sometimes it’s best to just STFU especially in relationships. I can’t even count how many times I created an issue that didn’t need to be an issue simply because I opened my mouth. Even if what you want to say is important, just shut up and ride it out. You can say more with your actions than words, and you can’t listen when you’re talking.
有候沉默是金特在情。我都不清到底多少次因引了本可以避免的端。即使你想的非常重要，那也嘴，自行消化。你可以用行明一切，竟你自己的候是不的。
17.Just Stop, and Breathe… 停一下，深呼吸吧
No matter what you’re doing in life or how your day is going, there’s always room to just stop for a moment and just breathe. Try it right now to celebrate getting through this list of everything you’re doing wrong.
你在在什，一天得怎，你都需要好好停一下深呼吸。不如在就歇一歇，犒自己算挺了一些不好的事。
{本文摘自路}
