今天在反感别人沟通效率低的时候突然想到自己也犯类似问题 - V2EX
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今天在反感别人沟通效率低的时候突然想到自己也犯类似问题

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  •   depress May 26, 2020 2623 views
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    今天问别人一个问题,他不是直接回答答案,而是从侧面绕了个大圈子,1 分钟能搞定的事花了 N 倍的时间。然后我突然就意识到自己也会有类似问题,有的时候别人问我什么,我也不是直接回答,而是说类似"你觉得呢"、"那不然呢",或者也是绕个圈子或者举个反例。我就很奇怪为什么自己会这样,其实有时候只需要回答一个是、对、不是、不对、嗯等等很少的字,却说那么多字还没说到点上。以后要有意识的纠正自己这个问题。
    4 replies    2020-05-28 11:22:59 +08:00
    IzayakI
        1
    IzayakI  
       May 27, 2020
    反对,我们一般把“绕圈子”称为社交,反问 /反证可以加强语气,意味着他人可以获得更清晰的记忆。
    Brodybro
        2
    Brodybro  
       May 27, 2020
    启发别人思考 VS 快问快答
    maemolee
        3
    maemolee  
       May 27, 2020
    反问句不是个好东西,太容易引发争吵。
    no1xsyzy
        4
    no1xsyzy  
       May 28, 2020
    简单的回答可能扼杀某些独特的思路
    但对大多数人没什么影响,你得先知道这人总会冒出些特别有用的思路启发式回应才是有意义的。
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